Do you know what about a person that makes them confident?
There are other factors, influencing a persons confidence such as belief in themselves or environment that there in, also there self concept and how they see themselves to be, however there is one which isn’t really mentioned.
And that is..
A correlation of how much a person likes and love themselves
Usually when a person likes and loves themselves alot this generates high self esteem, since it shows appreciation towards themselves.
For example, do you remember a time in your life when a person really appreciated you, someone admired you or said a good things about you, when this happens a person starts to feel good about themselves and when a person starts to feel good about themselves, they start to feel confident about themselves.
So the more you start to like and love yourself, the more confident you will be in yourself.
Giving you higher self esteem and with a higher self esteem the quality of your life will improve.
A person who lacks appreciation of themselves.
Will withhold themselves from opportunity and will take disrespect from others.
I remember reading a book and i remember reading something interesting, it said that, ” A person will only let the other person abuse them as much as they abuse themselves”
So if you don’t really appreciate yourself, you will be more vulnerable to have someone disrespect you and you will only take as much as you abuse yourself.
So ask yourself this, what can i do to start to appreciate myself more.
And for alot of people Two main things need to happen
- They need to let go of the past and there mistakes
- They need to cut out the negative story or false idea they have about themselves, because every time you say something or think something negative about yourself, you will start to reinforce it and believe it and demonstrate those qualities.
Whatever you decide to do after reading this is up to you, but remember this
A person will only let the other person abuse them as much as they abuse themselves